Category Archives: love

How To Seduce a Scorpio Woman

I was looking over some of the search terms that lead people to my post “How to Win (and Lose) a Scorpio Woman,” and I wanted to do a little Q&A session based on the search strings.  I think the … Continue reading

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Protected: Checking in

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Protected: The Prophesy

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Protected: 2008 in Review

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Protected: Impossibility is possibility.

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As I love: my poetics

(Zukofsky.) This weekend was pretty amazing for me. First off, it’s the first time I’ve ever been invited to a conference as a speaker, with all the glam benefits that entails (billing, funding, and organizational/financial support). That was enough in … Continue reading

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Protected: The 12th comes around

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Protected: Because life is not art (Backstage Pass)

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Protected: Because life is not art

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Protected: “Without thee here to stay, is to go hence unwilling…”

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Speaking of miniature…

Pictures of my tiny (.5″) paper cubes with intractable/unretractable love-letter scrolls, included in Helen White’s zaoem 2008 festival in Belgium, are now online (the main page has a little commentary, or read my original blog post about them here). Yay!

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What I’m Doing

- Working. Haven’t found a job other than the Ebay listing scam thing, but am still applying for other PT positions. I start adjuncting in two weeks, but I don’t actually get paid by the school for another month. Moreover, … Continue reading

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Hiatus

Um. Yes. Underwater. With boy. Not here.

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Protected: The loss

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“Something impossible– else I shall suffocate.”

Last night I planned to go to sleep early, but I ended up staying up until 4 reading Duras’s L’Amante Anglaise. It was fine. Not the best Duras but interestingly done, one of her novels that could just as easily … Continue reading

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“You got her number off an Aids Walk list?!”

It’s not unusual for people to hang up on us when we call from BPO subscriptions offering them tickets (at drastically reduced prices, as it is more important to have subscribers and get matching NEA funds than to sell individual … Continue reading

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“The Scorpio Woman”

First, the background: we’ve been talking about astrology in our house. This is hard to avoid when you’re living with a person named after his sign (Tawrin/Taurus). I am a Scorpio, Ashvin’s a Libra, and Scott is Pisces. As a … Continue reading

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Protected: A regrettable 6 mos.

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Catch-up post

Sometimes people read my blog once a month or once a season or once a year instead of every day. Sigh.* ;-) So just to catch up…

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Protected: A Coney Island of the Mind

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Protected: Dating ABDs

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Protected: One of my favorite breakup poems

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Protected: Other fairy tales (less pleasant)

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Protected: Marriage manifesto

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Protected: What I really wanted to say

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Protected: Warning.

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Standards

As you know, if you’ve been reading Looktouchblog for any length of time, I’ve been going through an interpersonal relationship crisis for a couple of years now. I can mark it out as beginning in November 2005, when I first … Continue reading

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Protected: Stress and stress.

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Protected: My stats went up

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Protected: Two postscripts.

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Protected: 2008 is going to be different

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Protected: A new-old story

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Protected: Whaaaa

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Protected: Brief answers to recent topics of conversation

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Protected: Breech birth

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Protected: Things I’ve learned from having a brief affair with John

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Protected: Love me tender

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Protected: The art of conquest

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tiny wonderrooms of love

Inspired by the tiny box in Eraserhead and what it contained (what was that little root-like thing? The solution? A mystery? If the solution, dead or latent? Life or death?), I’ve been making tiny (.5″) boxes out of iridescent, glossy … Continue reading

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Protected: The one ring

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Protected: My love life is the pits right now.

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Protected: There’s no place like home.

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Protected: V-Day (or, men are mean thoughtless selfish pigs)

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When I have seen the hungry ocean gain / Advantage on the kingdom of the shore

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