Time to get over my current lover and move on to my next victim. It turns out that I’m not in the market for a noncommital relationship. I want to be with someone who could potentially love me.
(I somehow manage to be cynical and ridiculously tender-hearted at the same time.)
Jessica Smith
I am mildly confused …
just venting… the guy i’ve been “seeing” (ehem) is emotionally unavailable, and that bothers me.
Ah, yes … Even though I’ve been often on the other side (“emotionally unavailable,” that is), I can kinda see why it could be annoying.
I tend to eventually want the whole person, even if it began as a purely physical relationship. It’s annoying when they don’t feel the same way.
Go slowly. Otherwise, you might end up very very bored of the person in question.
True. I do go through people passionately and quickly. But I’m not really bored with this one yet; in fact, I find him quite interesting, that’s why I want more out of him.
As a usually emotionally unavailable person (wow, that was a mouthful), I tend to resist when people want too much (out) of me. But that’s just me. I’m not sure it’s relevant with your boy.
Granted, a little resistance is better than being completely open. But eventually I want in those walls.